Celebs As Role Models

Ever since the revolution of mass media (tv, radio, major newspaper/magazines, internet, etc) in the 1950s and decades after, celebrities have had their careers and personal lives in the spotlight like never before. They are constantly criticized on their marriages, dating life, drug usage, clothes, friends, looks, and pretty much every action they make. A hot topic when it comes to the famous is them being role models to the youth.






While it would be ideal (in a perfect world) for all celebrities to be role models, it is NOT THEIR RESPONSIBILITY!!!!!!!!!! I could really go in on this issue, but I’m gonna try to keep it as short as possible. I’ll use Rihanna and Chris Brown for example ( two of the most famous and controversial R&B/pop music artists in pop culture today). When they both released their debut albums as teenagers back around 2005 as teenagers, they had squeaky clean images. Fast forward a few years later…they are now adults, explicit, and have a few scandals (heck many lol)
under their belts.



Both Chris and Rihanna are no strangers to being criticized for their videos. It began back in 2007 for Chris with hit single ‘Take You Down’ from his Exclusive album, and Rihanna in 2009 with her chart topper’s ‘Rude Boy’ song and video from her Rated R album. From profanity to sexually explicit lyrics and wild videos such as Rihanna’s ‘S&M’ music video released several months ago, which was banned in 11 countries- some media outlets, fans, and parents of their young fans have been voicing their dissatisfaction. They have also gotten negative attention for everything from partying (from drinking, wild dancing, & attire), their choice of boyfriends/girlfriends, and more. Mind you, Chris is now 22 and Rihanna is 23.


Chris and Rihanna are GROWN, so they can sing about adult topics, use profanity, party, wear what they want, and date who they want. While I understand that they have young fans (minors) and that young fans sometimes often imitate the behaviors of their favorite celebs, it is the responsibility of their parents and guardians to raise them at the end of the day. It is their responsibility to instill knowledge and values in regards to self-respect, appearance, sex, drugs/alcohol, etc. If parents have a problem with the image or music of Chris Brown and Rihanna as well as other stars in general, then they need to prohibit their child from listening to their music or whatever material the star of their choice is featured in (movies, tv shows, etc). My parents DID THEIR JOBS and were open about these issues prevelant in society while I was a child and censored what we were able to listen to, movies we were able to watch, things like that until we became of age. This helped me to keep my head on straight.









Honestly, youth are probably exposed to stuff 10x worse than what they see celebs do at school, hanging out with peers and in the news for example. I will not say that celebs like Lindsey Lohan’s behavior is acceptable. While I do not feel it is her responsibility to be a role model to a child that is not her own…jail, DUIs, Felony charges, and other major problems are not cool and she should be more responsible and less reckless with her life. Those things are a cry for help as with any person. A celeb and regular person should not have negative behavior like that. Celebs are just normal people with fame and fortune…not supreme beings. We all just want to find ourselves, and be happy in this journey of life. Everyone has flaws and makes mistakes including those in the spotlight. What kills me is how people scrutinize celebs for things they are doing, have done, or know somebody whose done it. People need to educate themselves, raise their own kids, and stop being hypocritical.

KERI HILSON CONTROVERSY - My Opinion On Her 'The Way You F***k Me' Music Video


On November 28, 2010, about a weeks ago, Keri Hilson released her 'The Way You F*** Me' video on WorldStarHipHop.com. The single is the 3rd released from her upcoming sophmore album 'No Boys Allowed' (follow-up to her 2009 platinum 'In A Perfect World' debut), scheduled for release on December 21. As soon as the video hit the net, the controversial video was met with shock by bloggers and music fans all over the net. In the video Keri can be seen refering to herself as a "bad b***h", screaming sexually explicit terms (p***y, f**k me, etc), and most suprisingly dressing in underwear and a revealing top dancing in an EXTREMELY sexual way. Most Keri fans and music fans in general were asking "How did Keri go from the classy 'Breaking Point'(first video released from the album) and 'Pretty Girl Rock' videos (second video released for the album) paying homage to women in music such as the Supremes to this?" Many fans claimed she went this route to create a buzz in order to attempt to sell more records. Many people have now labeled her as a "hoe" and "slut" because of the video, some say she lost their respect, and some say they are no longer fans.

Keri's response to the negative views on the video was "It is racy.I can't allow other people or the media to dictate what I can and cannot do," and "I'm talking about one man in a relationship, I'm not talking about being a slut or whore and being paid to do things." Basically she described that it's how women feel, she was being real, and so on. My reaction to the video was shocked, because I never expected a video like this from Keri Hilson. I'll start on a positive note. I will say that Keri is an adult, so she has the right to say and do whatever she wants. It is true that women can relate to the majority of her music. Also, it's not the responsibility of music artists or celebrities in general to be "role models" for the youth.

One thing I disagree with was the way she was dressed half-naked in the video, dancing in a "promiscuous" way, and being sexually explicit with the song lyrics. Keri also refered to the video as "art," but it was definitely not to me, more like "trashy". I also disagree with some of the people commenting on YouTube, blogs, and other sites saying that video and the song was "sexy". A true definition of a sexy but classy video and song would be 'Unthinkable' by Alicia Keys, 'What's My Name?" by Rihanna Feat. Drake, 'Video Phone' by Beyonce Feat. Lady Gaga, and YES even the 'Single' video by Lil' Wayne. If you are a grown you clearly know what the artists are talking about, however the videos and songs are not outrageously explicit like 'The Way You F**k Me' is. The artists and others in the videos are respectably clothed, and the lyrics are clean (well Weezy drops the F bomb several times, but you can't compare the song or videos to Keri's).

Keri could have expressed herself in a more subtle and respectful way that didn't take away from her class. Being half-naked or practically naked in a music video, save it for your bf or husband. Using sexually explicit language telling everything you like to do or have done to you, save if for your bf or husband. All the overally sexual not "sexy" dancing (that was more like movement to be honest), save it for your bf or husband. There is no need to broadcast it to the world trying to claim it as art as a music artist or as a women period. Some have said that it's a double standard, and rappers talk the same way in their videos and are not criticized. First of all they are criticized for "demeaning" and having half-naked video models in their videos sometimes. Secondly, rappers don't dress half-naked in their videos, so that's probably why they aren't called "hoes" and "sluts", only the girls in the videos " video hoes". Many of them do glorify sleeping with multiple women, and I have heard many people (males and females) say negative things about it.

When you look at some of the most famous, and successful business women in our country and even the world like Oprah, Tyra Banks, Raven Symone, Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, they all have class. You can't google their name to see them in too many scandals, half-naked music videos, pictures, or other things. You don't have to do those things to be successful, and should maintain a level of privacy. Most people's parents would be disgraced if they saw their daughter, no matter what age, in a video dressing and acting like that. I would never do something like that out of self-respect, and respect for my family. Also, it's one thing to be a certain way behind closed doors, but the public doesn't need to hear or see all your business.

- Nicole

The video...



Her response...




'Breaking Point' Video:



'Pretty Girl Rock' Video: