Favorite Reads



These books are some of my favorites that I read during my middle school/high school years mostly.

1. Kindred - Octavia E. Butler

2. The Rose That Grew From Concrete - Tupac Shakur

3. Like Sisters On The Homefront - Rita Williams-Garcia

4. Born Blue - Han Nolan

5. Triangle Of Sins - Nurit Folkes

6. Chanda's Secrets - Allan Stratton

7. The Harry Potter Series - J.K. Rowlings

8. The Coldest Winter Ever - Sister Souljah

9. Nervous - Zane

10. Black - Tracy Brown

11. Afterburn - Zane

12. Upstate - Kalisha Buckhanon

13. Diary Of A Mistress - Miasha

14. G-Spot - Noire

15. I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings - Maya Angelou

16. Mommy's Angel - Miasha

17. The Complete Collected Poems Of Maya Angelou - Maya Angelou

18. Foolish/Unfoolish: Reflections On Love - Ashanti

19. All I Want Is Everything - Daaimah S. Poole

20. Tears For Water: Songbook Of Poems & Lyrics - Alicia Keys

21. I'm Telling - Karen E. Quinones Miller

22. Caught In The Mix - Candice Dow

23. Ain't No Sunshine - Candice Dow

24. Flyy Girl - Omar Tyree

All-Time Favorite Songs: #4

1. So Into You - Tamia & Fabulous



2. I Care About You - K-Ci & JoJo



3. Lovers & Friends - Usher, Ludacris, & Lil' Jon



4. Brand New - Keyshia Cole



5. Have You Ever - Brandy



6. Killing Me Softly - The Fugees



7. Tha Crossroads - Bone Thugs N Harmony



8. Stole - Kelly Rowland



9. Why Don't We Fall In Love - Amerie



10. They Don't Know - Jon B

Celebs As Role Models

Ever since the revolution of mass media (tv, radio, major newspaper/magazines, internet, etc) in the 1950s and decades after, celebrities have had their careers and personal lives in the spotlight like never before. They are constantly criticized on their marriages, dating life, drug usage, clothes, friends, looks, and pretty much every action they make. A hot topic when it comes to the famous is them being role models to the youth.






While it would be ideal (in a perfect world) for all celebrities to be role models, it is NOT THEIR RESPONSIBILITY!!!!!!!!!! I could really go in on this issue, but I’m gonna try to keep it as short as possible. I’ll use Rihanna and Chris Brown for example ( two of the most famous and controversial R&B/pop music artists in pop culture today). When they both released their debut albums as teenagers back around 2005 as teenagers, they had squeaky clean images. Fast forward a few years later…they are now adults, explicit, and have a few scandals (heck many lol)
under their belts.



Both Chris and Rihanna are no strangers to being criticized for their videos. It began back in 2007 for Chris with hit single ‘Take You Down’ from his Exclusive album, and Rihanna in 2009 with her chart topper’s ‘Rude Boy’ song and video from her Rated R album. From profanity to sexually explicit lyrics and wild videos such as Rihanna’s ‘S&M’ music video released several months ago, which was banned in 11 countries- some media outlets, fans, and parents of their young fans have been voicing their dissatisfaction. They have also gotten negative attention for everything from partying (from drinking, wild dancing, & attire), their choice of boyfriends/girlfriends, and more. Mind you, Chris is now 22 and Rihanna is 23.


Chris and Rihanna are GROWN, so they can sing about adult topics, use profanity, party, wear what they want, and date who they want. While I understand that they have young fans (minors) and that young fans sometimes often imitate the behaviors of their favorite celebs, it is the responsibility of their parents and guardians to raise them at the end of the day. It is their responsibility to instill knowledge and values in regards to self-respect, appearance, sex, drugs/alcohol, etc. If parents have a problem with the image or music of Chris Brown and Rihanna as well as other stars in general, then they need to prohibit their child from listening to their music or whatever material the star of their choice is featured in (movies, tv shows, etc). My parents DID THEIR JOBS and were open about these issues prevelant in society while I was a child and censored what we were able to listen to, movies we were able to watch, things like that until we became of age. This helped me to keep my head on straight.









Honestly, youth are probably exposed to stuff 10x worse than what they see celebs do at school, hanging out with peers and in the news for example. I will not say that celebs like Lindsey Lohan’s behavior is acceptable. While I do not feel it is her responsibility to be a role model to a child that is not her own…jail, DUIs, Felony charges, and other major problems are not cool and she should be more responsible and less reckless with her life. Those things are a cry for help as with any person. A celeb and regular person should not have negative behavior like that. Celebs are just normal people with fame and fortune…not supreme beings. We all just want to find ourselves, and be happy in this journey of life. Everyone has flaws and makes mistakes including those in the spotlight. What kills me is how people scrutinize celebs for things they are doing, have done, or know somebody whose done it. People need to educate themselves, raise their own kids, and stop being hypocritical.

The Wild & Crazy Hair Evolution of Nicki Minaj

Nicki Minaj is definitely one of my favorite female artists of this time. She has been called “The Black Lady Gaga” by many of her fans. They both have unique styles (EXTREMEMELY unique at times), outrageous song lyrics, and don’t necessarily mold themselves into the image of the typical superstar. If you’re familiar with them, you know what I mean.

One thing that I admire most about Nicki is that she is a trendsetter with her hairstyles. She has had many different colors, lengths and even heights (lol) of hair since her career began years ago. Below are three of my top favorite of her hairstyles, and also the one hairstyle that she has rocked that I dislike.

LOVE IT...

1. The Black Bob Look
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2. The Barbie Blonde Look

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3. The Curly Streaks Look

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HATE IT....

As Charlie Sheen would say #NotWinning!

There are many different hairstyles Nicki Minaj has been seen with since she came into the game from blonde, pink, green, black, purple, to blue on mixtape/album covers, magazines, award shows, and other events/appearances. I have not been crazy about all of them, but this one takes the cake for the most disliked!!! She first revealed this look back in January while in London during promo for her multi-platinum debut album 'Pink Friday'. This is worse than that Wilma Flintstone orange hair she had at the 2010 BET Awards lol. Love ya Nicki, but I'm just saying.

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All-Time Favorite Songs: #3

1. Rock With You – Michael Jackson



2. All For You – Janet Jackson



3. Take It From Here – Justin Timberlake



4. Anticipating – Britney Spears



5. Two Wrongs – Wyclef Jean & Claudette



6. Love For All Seasons – Christina Aguilera



7. Best Friend – 50 Cent



8. Stop & Stare – One Republic



9. Footprints In The Sand – Leona Lewis



10. Built For This – Teairra Mari

All-Time Favorite Songs: #2

1. Addictive Love – BeBe & CeCe Winans



2. Keep Ya Head Up – Tupac



3. Dem Haters – Rihanna & Dwane Husbands



4. You Got It Bad – Usher



5. Juicy – The Notorious B.I.G.




6. Ride Wit Me – Nelly




7. Again – Faith Evans



8. Selfish – Nsync



9. Hero – Kirk Franklin Feat. Dorinda Clark Cole




10.Love Me or Hate Me – Lil’ Wayne